Untruths More Painful Than Reality

I’ve not exactly been myself this week. I do know exactly why that is, but I also can’t and won’t talk about why – at least not in a public forum.

To all my family and friends, if I have been short with you in any way this week, I apologise. For our closest friends who know the full story, I know you will understand. I know, because you’ve already shown that you do.

This situation has rocked me to the core of who I am.

On Tuesday, an accusation was made against me that was not only completely untrue, it was hurtful and disgusting. The worst part of all was that it came from within my extended family – from a person I should have been able to trust.

Clearly I could not.

We have made the decision as a family, that at this time we will cease contact with this person. It should not have to be this way, but we are left with no choice.

I am writing this post tonight in the hope that this person might read this, and realise the pain they have caused us – me, my amazing partner, and my gorgeous daughter – and the pain this scurrilous accusation will likely continue to cause in the time to come.

Reading this may be the only way they will ever understand how we feel right now.

You have betrayed our trust, you have gone behind our backs and put a mark against my name that I will never forgive you for. It will be proven untrue, but it will always be there.

You have put doubts in our minds we should not have – fortunately, these are starting to pass.

They say time heals all wounds – but this one is going to take a lot of time. A lot of time. No doubt you feel angry towards us right now, but this is of your own doing. Do not try to kid yourself that it was not you who have done the wrong here.

I hope you’re proud of yourself, and what you have caused yourself to lose. Right now, we are so much stronger without you.

Spam Scam Coming Through a Portal Near You!

Some minutes ago, I noticed that my spam filters had successfully blocked an email purporting to come from one of my secondary email addresses, addressed to my primary email address.

Well done spam filters! Amused, I sent this tweet, stating:

“I must have pissed myself off somwhere/somehow…one of my email addresses is sending spam to my main email address! #spam #legend”

Shortly thereafter, I received a tweet mention from “ENDSPAMNOW”, directing me to their website “nationaldonotspamregistry.com”, inviting me to join their “national register” – (clearly targeted towards people in the US) – of email addresses for which spam is to be “blocked”.

They also offer to prevent spam coming to me via SMS, if I just register on their site with my phone number as well.

All for as little as $19.99 a year! Fantastic!

On their “How Do We Do It?” page, they state:

“The NATIONAL DO NOT SPAM REGISTRY immediately helps you stop unwanted messages with the use of our unprecedented NATIONAL SUPPRESSION FILE.”

Upon sign-up, your details are “instantly” added to the “National DO NOT TEXT”, “National DO NOT EMAIL”, “National DO NOT Telemarket”, and “National DO NOT Mail” lists.

They’ve thought of everything!

Now, to my way of thinking, a true spammer is not going to subscribe to any “NATIONAL DO NOT SPAM REGISTRY”, right?

So if you sign up, you’ve just given this mob at least your name, address, mobile/cell number, and email address(es), and then parted with $19.99, for a service the spammers are not going to use, right?

Ever wonder where spammers get your email address? Crap like this of course! They’ve also got enough information to steal your identity!

Sounds like a spam or scam, coming through the portal, hey Mr Conroy?

Avoid this like the plague people!

Dell Email Database Breached

This evening it was reported that Australian customers of global computer manufacturer Dell, may have been part of a security breach in which their name and email address have been exposed to hackers.

I received the following email warning from Dell:

Are you affected? If you’ve ever done business with Dell which included the supply of your email address to them, you probably have been. What can you do?

Not much.

In all likelihood the email addresses have found their way into the hands of spammers and criminal elements looking to perpetrate online scams – so be on the lookout for increased levels of spams looking to get you to click on things. Don’t open emails from people you don’t know, or from organisations you don’t deal with.

If you get something suspicious, report it at ACMA’s spam reporting site, and try and help solve the problem.

Via Broadband Fail

ABC News 24, the round the clock television news service from Australia’s ABC has developed the annoying habit of delivering news/press conferences “via broadband”, with generally bad results – audio breakup, pixelation, complete drop outs – such as this example when the Coalition announced their broadband policy in the lead up to the last election.

Take this one just delivered by federal Infrastructure Minister, Anthony Albanese:



Crying out for some faster, less latent, more stable bandwidth? This is what the Coalition suggests we stick with!

Alexander Downer: Bitch

In what many are seeing as an extraordinary spray against regional Australia, former Liberal opposition leader and Foreign Minister Alexander Downer has stated:

“If SA Cricket Association members vote down the Adelaide Oval redevelopment project then it will consign our city to mediocrity and provincialism worthy of Geelong or Newcastle.”

Not to be outdone, Geelong’s local newspaper The Advertiser has come out suggesting that he not be “so bitchy”, especially towards a city he has lived in, after spending time as a boarder at Geelong Grammar School. It also labelled the swipe as having “sunk the stiletto into Geelong”.

A clear reference to a moment listed as one of his most embarrassing moments, from a promotional stunt for a performance of the Rocky Horror Show and a look politicians should probably steer away from – publicly at least!

Nice one AlexandriaAlexander!

NOTE: The Advertiser doesn’t appear to have an electronic version of the story on their site at this stage – I will update this article when/if it comes online.

UPDATE: The Advertiser has the story online now.

NBN: Who Wants Five Grand?

With the recent passing of the legislation enabling the National Broadband Network (NBN), you might be excused for thinking the debate might be starting to settle down a fair bit.

Not so, it would seem.

If anything, it has flared up even more in the last couple of weeks, and with the cancellation of the first construction tender last Friday, many of the critics are sharpening their knives.

The benefits or otherwise of the NBN could be argued until one is blue in the face, so with this article I wanted to take a different tack. I’m relating back to an article I wrote back in October, describing some of the benefits the existence of the NBN might bring to the economy.

I encourage you to read the article to get the full background on my thinking.

INSERT MUZAK HERE WHILE YOU READ

Now that you have the background, I want to answer a question you might have – “what will this do for me?

Say that my employer set up a scheme whereby every one of the thirty or so employees in the office were sent home to work four days a week, only having to be in the office one day a week.

One fifth of the employees turn up to the office on Monday, another fifth on Tuesday, and then Wednesday, Thursday, and so on until Friday. There might only need to be about 10 desks in the office, with people only in the office one day a week, and sharing a desk with four other people who come in on the other days.

My company slashes the amount of office space it needs to rent. Utility costs are slashed. The company provisions a private NBN circuit, like described in this article.

We get to work at home, closer to our families. We have zero commute time four days a week, and get to sleep in a little longer in the mornings, almost certainly helping with our health. Communication with co-workers is maintained through unified communications systems operated in the cloud by the company.

Nice – but what about the financial benefits?

I live in Geelong and commute into Melbourne every single day to the office. I wake up at 5:50am every morning, and by the time I get home in the evening and settled it is often 7:00pm – that’s a thirteen hour day before I get to do anything else.

How much money does that cost me? Currently I buy a $55.20 weekly train ticket. Presuming that I might have four-weeks of annual leave a year, I’m paying $55.20 x 48 weeks a year in train travel, totalling $2649.60 each year.

If I was only travelling into Melbourne on one day each week, I would be buying a single $16.60 daily ticket 48 times a year, costing $796.80.

That’s a saving to me personally $1852.80. Each year. Add to that the money I would be saving in petrol not driving to the train station every morning, and I’m saving well over $2000.00 a year.

Now, imagine you live in Melbourne and drive to work every day. If I have to drive to work, I park at Etihad Stadium, just a short stroll from the office, and $13.00 a day to park.

Over 48 weeks, and five days in each of those weeks, that’s $3120.00 each year in parking. You might be spending $60.00 a week on petrol to get you into the CBD through the heavily congested freeway traffic, costing you another $2880.00 a year.

That’s $6000.00, and a lot of money. And a lot of hassle and stress.

Cutting down to one day a week, your annual parking bill drops to $13.00 x 48 for $624.00, and cutting your fuel bill by 80%, you are now only spending $576.00 on petrol for the purposes of getting to work.

Your bill is down to $1200.00 – a saving of $4800.00. Add to that the benefits of just being able to spend more time at home with your family, let’s just call it $5000.00 – (probably more!).

If someone walked up to you and offered you five grand, would you say no?

Spend that $5000.00 on a solar power system for your house, and you’ll save more, and be helping the environment.

Yes, I’ve made a few assumptions here – but stop and think for a moment. This kind of change isn’t really possible right now with the poor upload speeds available in Australia preventing people from working at LAN speeds.

The NBN will make it possible, for a long time to come.

Professional Commenter or Birdbrained?

Having a quick browse of the local news before sitting down for dinner this evening, I found myself chuckling at a comment posted against this story about a concept car for the upcoming new Mad Max sequel, Fury Road, found in the Geelong Advertiser.

Says “Jo of Geelong”:

“HHHHHHMMMMMM!!!!!!! if only Ford would use their money for good and not evil!!!!!I’m sure the money it cost to build this car could have been used for better………..”

Says “Michael of Geelong” – (me, obviously):

“Jo of Geelong – you realise this is a drawing, right?”

It made me wonder – are some people really that stupid? Do some people just throw negative comments at articles, just to be negative, or attack initiatives they don’t care about or understand? Are they environmentalists having a go at an evil car company, perceived to be killing the planet through toxic emissions from their vehicles?

Nah – I vote for “really that stupid”.

NBN Legislation Passes – Now Get On With It!

After a marathon session in the House of Representatives, the legislation enabling the National Broadband Network passed into law, requiring only royal ascension from the Governor-General.

Whether or not you are a supporter of the NBN, the bottom line is that the NBN is now law, and it is now time to let Mike Quigley and his team at NBN Co to “get on with it”. Despite what some sections of the media and the detractors might say.

There are so many benefits for this nation, as I have discussed in many articles:

So, let’s do it. Get on with it!

Newspaper Fail: Why Bother?

When reading this article in regards to potential changes to taxi regulations in Victoria, I found myself asking – “why bother?” – when looking at the accompanying picture.

Someone took the time to blank out the taxi number of the front vehicle, but not the others! Why bother taking the time to block the first one, and ignore the rest?

Fail.

Footy Is Back – Maths Ability Is Not

Great to see that football is back for 2011, though some at the AFL have clearly started the new season without their mathematical abilities in tact:

Surely Collingwood’s score of 12 goals and 2 behinds totals 74 points, and not 37? And surely Port Adelaide’s score of 3 goals and 5 behinds equals 23 points, and not 19?

Oh dear.